My life is a constant rhythm of one step foreword, three steps back.
Or so it feels.
I’m usually spinning in ten different directions in my mind, dissecting thoughts, analyzing everything, noticing details. It’s normally a pretty crazy place in there and I’m juggling all the ideas and words in a valiant attempt to shuffle them into some kind of linear sense.
Lately, however, I’ve become a mellow line rolling steadily onward.
It has been really, really quiet around here.
My last post was all about silence and growing through it, but I feel as though I’m growing out of it at this point. I desperately want to shake things up. I don’t recognize this place and I miss the random bursts of colour, the unpredictable, the anticipation of possibility.
Smells are very important to me for some reason. I go rogue in soap and lotion stores. I’m not into anything too fruity or too perfume-y. The smell has to be distinct, yet subtle. Smells are directly connected to location and memory (and I didn’t make that up, either. That is an actual fact). I found a lotion today that I used for all of first semester, and one whiff took me back to the days of early fall and econ class and the different shades and nuances that season held for me.
Now I am here and in some ways I feel as if I have digressed. I like to think that I’m always pushing foreword and growing, constantly building up and gaining new ground. These days, though, I’m either stalling or rolling backwards. I get moments of air and clarity sprinkled throughout my days and, in those spaces, I convince myself that I’m totally fine. What was I worrying about again? There’s nothing wrong. It’ll work itself out. Life is dandy.
Then I notice how quiet everything is.
What I’m really doing here is kicking around the inside of my shell, trying to punch a hole in it. I really hope I’m making sense, but if I’m not, I’m ok with that too. I don’t have all the answers. This is a journey and I’m standing at a point in the road where I can’t see where I’m going. It’s a little foggy.
In attempt to gain some direction, I’ve been running over these frayed ends, trying to pull them together in some kind of connection. Scattered ideas are all I have.
- I could be on the verge of something. I feel as though I’m walking around with a blindfold on and earplugs in, stumbling around with my arms waving out in front of me, but when this blindfold comes off, I could find myself further ahead and standing in a place of more brilliant freedom and maturity. I can let this silence create distance between myself and God, or I can press in and allow it to draw me closer toward him.
- I might need to do something. There is a thought bouncing around in the back of my mind that I need to stop thinking sometimes and start doing things. I don’t think this means ignoring underlying issues or pretending away what I feel, but I might be overthinking all of this just a bit. It might be time to pull out of all the theorizing, stop connecting the dots and start taking action.
- I am not defeated. Honestly, all of this quiet kind of trailed me into autopilot after a while (hence the plodding mellow line). All of last year I lived with a sense of total and complete awareness of God. I was still a confused and wandering mess of a child, but I’d seek hard and pray hard and watch intently as God kept showing up in my life. It floored me every time. Somewhere, somehow, the bottom cracked a bit. I felt it, but at the beginning I had no idea how the hollowness would reverberate through every part of me. I still pray all the time, but I’m not as expectant as I used to be. My prayers wilted a little. I’m walking around with an attitude of defeat when I should be standing in a posture of victory and freedom.